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Shameless Grounds

✓ Verified Details confirmed: Nov 2026

Lifestyle bars · Benton Park, St. Louis

Before you go: the essentials

Entry
Depends on the night
Dress code
Upscale casual and/or sexy; no nudity.
Entry (price stated by the venue)
ENM Night: 10 USD per person, per the website; tickets via its online shop. Confirm before you go.

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Verified information: how much checked information we hold for this listing.

Complete Level 4 of 5 Meets 5 of 8 criteria

  • Website or official source : Met
  • Precise address and coordinates : Missing
  • Published access policy : Met
  • Published rules or dress code : Met
  • Published opening hours : Missing
  • Verified in the last 12 months : Met
  • Photo with credit and licence : Met
  • Two or more direct sources on record : Missing

Last verified: 9 Nov 2026

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What to expect at Shameless Grounds

Shameless Grounds is a sex-positive cafe in the Benton Park neighbourhood of south St. Louis, Missouri, and it belongs in this guide because of its monthly night for people who practise or are curious about ethical non-monogamy. According to its official website, the venue has a patio, indoor seating and carry-out, serves breakfast, salads and sandwiches, and keeps a human sexuality lending library for visitors aged 18 and over, free STI testing every other Friday in partnership with a health centre, and free safe-sex supplies. The ENM Night runs on almost every fourth Friday from 6 pm to 10 pm, with tickets at 10 dollars per person sold through its online shop; it is a social meet-and-greet with a bar and drink specials, not a club with a play area. Because of the city liquor licence nudity is not allowed, and the dress code is upscale casual and/or sexy. The house rules ask guests to accept a no with grace and not to get sloppily drunk. The site gives no specific date for the next night, so confirm the calendar with the venue before you go.

House rules

Per the website: accept a no with grace and do not get sloppily drunk; guests who do are sent home by cab. Nudity is not allowed under the city liquor licence.

1901 Withnell, St. Louis, MO

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