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ENM Night: 10 USD per person, per the website; tickets via its online shop. Confirm before you go.
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What to expect at Shameless Grounds
Shameless Grounds is a sex-positive cafe in the Benton Park neighbourhood of south St. Louis, Missouri, and it belongs in this guide because of its monthly night for people who practise or are curious about ethical non-monogamy. According to its official website, the venue has a patio, indoor seating and carry-out, serves breakfast, salads and sandwiches, and keeps a human sexuality lending library for visitors aged 18 and over, free STI testing every other Friday in partnership with a health centre, and free safe-sex supplies. The ENM Night runs on almost every fourth Friday from 6 pm to 10 pm, with tickets at 10 dollars per person sold through its online shop; it is a social meet-and-greet with a bar and drink specials, not a club with a play area. Because of the city liquor licence nudity is not allowed, and the dress code is upscale casual and/or sexy. The house rules ask guests to accept a no with grace and not to get sloppily drunk. The site gives no specific date for the next night, so confirm the calendar with the venue before you go.
House rules
Per the website: accept a no with grace and do not get sloppily drunk; guests who do are sent home by cab. Nudity is not allowed under the city liquor licence.