Swingering: the Spanish project normalising the swinger world

Swingering is one of the longest-running Spanish-language projects about the swinging lifestyle online. The people behind it, who introduce themselves as Eli and Oscar, publish videos, live streams and a weekly podcast with one clear goal: to explain open relationships from a healthy, informed and respectful perspective. Here at BarSwinger we look at what they do, who they speak to and why their work is useful for newcomers.

Who is behind Swingering

According to its own website, Swingering was founded in 2015 and is run by two people who sign as Eli and Oscar (swingering.com, accessed 6 November 2026). The project states a direct aim: to "normalise the SWINGER world". They do not use full names or share further personal details, and this article respects that choice.

The site is in Spanish, prices are shown in euros and the content focuses on the lifestyle scene in Spain, although the videos and podcast reach Spanish speakers everywhere.

What kind of content they create

Swingering combines several public formats:

• A weekly podcast. "El Podcast de Swingering" describes itself as "a podcast made by swingers for swingers" and has passed 180 episodes. Recent ones include "First time at a swinger club: 7 tips you'd have liked to know before" (8 October 2026) and "The most popular swinger destinations in Spain" (15 October 2026) (podcast listing, accessed 6 November 2026).
• Video and live streams. They run a YouTube channel (@swingeringlive) and stream on Twitch.
• Written guides. The website organises content into beginner-friendly themes: "First steps", "Rules and limits", "Emotional management" and "Avoid mistakes".
• Directory and community. They offer a venue listing where users can suggest places, plus a paid members' club.

Their message about the lifestyle

What stands out to us is how much attention Swingering gives to what happens before and after a night at a club. Their "Rules and limits" and "Emotional management" sections point to two topics that usually get left out: agreeing as a couple on what you want and don't want, and handling jealousy or insecurity when it shows up.

The website sums up the approach in one line: talking "without filters" about open relationships, but from a "healthy, informed and respectful" perspective and so they can be lived "safely". It is a message that matches what we say in our own guides: the lifestyle works when communication between partners comes first.

Community and reach

Swingering has published regularly for more than a decade, which is rare in a niche where many projects vanish within months. The podcast keeps a weekly schedule and the website shows activity in 2026. We do not publish audience figures because the project does not share them on its official channels.

Alongside free content, they offer paid one-to-one advice sessions for couples and for single men who want to understand the scene. They describe this service on their website; BarSwinger has not tried it and neither recommends nor discourages it.

Why we think they matter

For Spanish speakers searching "first time at a lifestyle club" or "how to get started", Swingering is one of the most experienced voices. Their practical content complements ours: we verify venues, opening hours and house rules; they bring the lived experience and the couple's conversation. If you are just starting out, read our lifestyle glossary as well.

Where to follow them

• Website: swingering.com
• YouTube: @swingeringlive
• Instagram and TikTok: @swingering_
• Podcast: "El Podcast de Swingering" on Spotify and Apple Podcasts

Frequently asked questions

What is Swingering?

A Spanish-language project about the swinging lifestyle and open relationships, founded in 2015, with a podcast, videos, guides and a community.

Who hosts the Swingering podcast?

The project is run by two people who present themselves publicly as Eli and Oscar.

Is their content suitable for beginners?

Yes. Many of their guides and episodes are aimed at people taking their first steps: rules, limits, emotional management and common mistakes.

Does BarSwinger have a commercial relationship with Swingering?

No. This article is informational and contains no sponsored links.

About this article: based on statements and content Swingering has published on its official channels (sources linked, accessed 6 November 2026). If you are part of Swingering and want to correct something, give us an interview or ask for this article to be removed, contact us through BarSwinger's "Report" form.