Red Room Nashville: how a membership club works, with no door entry

Red Room Nashville works like many event clubs in the United States: it has no door to knock on any random Saturday, but a website, a membership and a calendar of themed nights. This guide explains what BarSwinger read on its official website on 7 November 2026 and how to prepare if it is your first time. We did not visit the venue; everything comes from what the club publishes, and where something is not stated we say so.

What it is and where

The official website presents itself as a members' club "powered by Modern Lifestyle" and says it runs weekly themed events. Its events are listed with a base in Goodlettsville, Tennessee, in the Nashville metro area, and the venue is given as "Backstage Venue". The address is not public: only ticketed members see it, and the club explains that it does not accept walk-ins to protect its members' privacy and security. That is why we do not publish a venue page with an address in our directory, and why in the events section you will see the club's nights but no map.

How you get in

The rules it publishes are direct. You must be 21 or older and bring ID to the event. Everyone must be an approved member before they can buy a ticket, and approval involves a 24-hour waiting period. Door entry ("walk-ins") is not accepted. Membership can be paid when buying a ticket or separately beforehand. Advertised rates, the same for couples, men and women: 10 dollars for one week, 20 for one month, 40 for three months, 65 for six months and 100 for a year. Ticket prices vary and are shown on each event's page.

Calendar for the coming weeks

The calendar shows Friday and Saturday nights, all from 8pm to 2am. Among the dates listed: Saturday 14 November ("Black Hearts and Bad Decisions"), Friday 20 November (a breast cancer awareness night), Saturday 21 November (fifth anniversary), Friday 27 November ("Black Friday at RRN"), Saturday 28 November ("Sweatpants & Shenanigans!"), Friday 4 December ("Newbie Naughty or Nice!"), Saturday 5 December (a Christmas gift exchange), Friday 11 December ("Eyes Wide Shut, RRN style"), Saturday 12 December ("Surfs Up Santa"), Saturday 19 December, Friday 25 December, Saturday 26 December and Thursday 31 December (New Year's Eve party). Friday 18 and Friday 25 December are shown without tickets available or still to be announced. In our events section we have published three: the fifth anniversary, "Eyes Wide Shut, RRN style" and New Year's Eve.

If it is your first time

The website has a night called "Newbie Naughty or Nice!" on Friday 4 December; its title suggests it is aimed at those starting out, but the page does not detail this in our reading, so ask the club before buying. Beyond that: apply for membership ahead of time, read the rules and dress code pages (which we could not read in our consultation), talk with your partner about limits and a word to stop, and arrive with your way home settled, because the nights end at 2am.

Alcohol and getting home

The website does not explain the venue's alcohol policy in what we read. The CDC defines binge drinking as four or more drinks on one occasion for women and five or more for men. If you drink, do not drive: book a ride or a sober driver. In Nashville, the Broadway and 2nd Avenue area concentrates bars and entertainment venues, but the club is in another part of the metro area, so do not count on walking back.

Basic etiquette

Although the club does not detail its conduct rules in what we read, the universal rule applies here: ask before touching, a no is accepted the first time without explanation, and you do not take photos or share outside the club who you were with. If something makes you uncomfortable, tell your partner and leave without explaining.

Health

The CDC recommends using condoms every time, getting tested regularly and sharing results with your partner. Bring your own protection.

What we could not confirm

We could not read Red Room's rules and dress code pages, nor the price of each ticket, nor the alcohol policy, nor the capacity. We could not read Tennessee's indecent exposure law, so we say nothing about how it applies to a private members' event: consult a Tennessee lawyer if in doubt. Confirm everything with the club.

Frequently asked questions

Can I buy a ticket without being a member? No: you must first be an approved member.

How long does approval take? 24 hours, according to its website.

Is there door entry? Walk-ins are not accepted.

What time are the nights? From 8pm to 2am.

How much is membership? From 10 dollars (one week) to 100 dollars (one year), the same for couples, men and women.

Source: redroomnashville.com (read on 7 November 2026) and CDC.